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Burial at Fairfax Cemetery, Osage County, OK @ 8th & Taft, Section B(NW Corner) last grave on South end of second row from North entranceon West side.Debbie:
Thanks a bunch for the card and photos, especially, the photos. Thisis
the first time that I have ever seen an identified photo of William
Marlow, my Great Grandfather. He appears just as my mother described
him.
William lived in Iron County, Missouri when John Allen Marlow wasborn.
John farmed with his dad in Missouri and married Frances Murphy. When
homesteading land became available in Arkansas, both William and John
moved to Arkansas. Recall that this was not long after the Civil War
(1861 - 1865), and that both Missouri and Arkansas were overrun by
military troops. Some of these troups were not much more than gangsof
independent volunteer ruffians with little discipline. As the wardrew
to a close, there were disoriented, shocked soldiers, roaming the
countyside like lost little boys who did not know where they were, or
where the next meal was comming from, and did not care as well. Some
were renegades. Others had become detached from their units, or were
all that was left of a decimated company. These men were desperate,
hungry, and would steal and shoot your milk cow to eat. Rape and
pillage was commonplace.
In William's old age, he lived his final days with his son, John Allen
Marlow in Arkansas and lastly, in Oklahoma. Mother recalls that shewas
his "bed warmer". It was a common practice for some families to placea
child in bed with an elderly person to help keep them warm on a cold
winter night. (Also, there was shortage of beds in large families.)
Mother [Rosa Orpha (Marlow) Mading] was a young child at that time,
probably 4 or 5 years old. She recalled one of her greatest fears:
She said that she laid awake many a night fearing that the old manwould
die in bed with her. That thought frightened her and I suspect thatit
was a secret not shared with any member of the family.
Mother was fond of William. She said that she often sat on his lapand
played with his beard. She said that William had a skin condition on
his face and did not shave. She also said that he had been woundedand
wore a silver plate in his body, but she did could not recall the
location of this plate or the nature of the wound.
There is a possibility that mother may have been confused about someof
these details becasue she was 95 years old when she related thisstory.
However, I do remember mother telling me in earlier years about her
sitting on William's lap and playing with his beard, so I believe that
this can be taken as factual. The telling was jumbled and disjointed,
jumping from one time frame to another, or from one person to another,
but the detail was amazingly vivid. I had the sense that I was there,
hidden but observing the scene. We are finding that much of what she
told us (while she was in her 90's) does have an accurate basis.
The Marlows moved from Arkansas to Oklahoma in 1908 or 1909 taking
William Marlow with them.. Mother was 4 years old. The women and
small children went by train. They were met at the train station in
Oklahoma by the Brown family. In fact, the Browns were veryinfluential
in John's decision to go to Oklahoma. The Marlows and Browns werevery
close friends while in Arkansas. There exists several pictures of the
Browns and Marlows eatng watermelon or picnicing together. The Brown
family had relocated to Oklahoma before the Marlows did. They acted
much like a sponsor to the newly arriving Marlow family.
John Marlow and some of the boys went by wagon to Oklahoma. They were
ferrying what belongings that would fit in the wagon Mother said the
wagon trip took 2 weeks.
Rosa said that Frances (Murphy) Marlow did not want to go to Oklahoma.
She was very satisfied with her Arkansas house (on Boston Mountian)and
dreaded uprooting the young family, and to go live in uncertain and
primitive housing. They had moved once before from Missouri. ButJohn
was very disappointed with the soil in the Arkansas homestead. It was
too rocky and broke the farming implements. The soil was thin. Itwas
impossible for him to farm in the manner that he wished to do.
The family arrived in Oklahoma in 1908 or 1909. Rosa had been born in
Arkansas on Sept. 20, 1904. Then in Oklahoma, she became 6 years old
on September, 1910. She began the first grade at Gray Horse School,but
diid not get to complete the first year there. John Marlow came into
the house one day in December of 1910 and announced, "We're moving."
The family moved 20 miles away from the Gray Horse School, thus
interrupting Rosa's first year at shcool.
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Hopefully, this provides you with some of the background about this
Marlow family and their migration from Missouri to Oklahoma.
Yours truly,
Jim Mading
Your picture was a big help in identifying William Marlow in anotherpicture we have taken about 1905 at Witt Springs, Arkansas that show12 men. The second man from the far right side is William Marlow asidentified from your picture of him with Lucinda Lucy. The man on theleft side of the picture is John Allan Marlow the others are notidentified - LeRoy Paris 12/24/01
MARLOW, WILLIAM
Spouse: WALLIS, ELIZABETH Marriage Date: 19 Feb 1860
County: Iron State: MO
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MARLOW, WILLIAM
Spouse: LEE, LUCINDA Marriage Date: 19 Aug 1873
County: Iron State: MO
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